Dear Parent,
I was such a shy child growing up. I was afraid to speak up; afraid to express my opinion. I didn’t think anyone would stop and listen to what I had to say or even care what I thought.
I’ll never forget my first potential “run-in” with the neighborhood bully. Everyone in the neighborhood feared “Joe”. You didn’t dare ride your bike down Joe’s street. You didn’t dare get in his way.
One day I was riding my bike to school. As I was going along, I heard a commotion behind me. It was Joe and his pack of “followers”. They approached me on their bikes, and Joe and another boy rode really close to me in an act of intimidation – so close that I lost control of my bike and fell to the ground. I was a bit shaken up. I had never been bothered by a bully before.
What happened next was so shocking. Instead of the typical bully behavior of laughing and riding off, Joe looked really concerned. He stopped riding, turned around, rode back to me and asked me if I was okay. I could tell he really cared about my welfare at that moment.
“I am fine”, I told him. He apologized, helped me up, and off we rode to school. He and his followers never again attempted to “bully” me.
I felt so strong and safe. There was a power and inner confidence so present in me, that it prompted a known neighborhood bully to apologize to ME!
Where did this inner sense of strength and security come from? Fortunately, I had adults in my life that knew the value of fostering a sense of inner strength within me using universal principles. I was taught about the existence of a power and wisdom that I could tap into it at will. By the time I was 8, I knew of the power I had over my life. If there was ever any doubt, this incident convinced me of my inner strength.
Would you believe I grew up feeling that I was “bully-proof”, even though I was shy and was probably the perfect target?
Years later, I was faced with another bully: Infertility. My husband and I so wanted a child; in fact I had dreamed all my life of having a large family; 6 kids sounded like a nice number to me! When I struggled to have a child, I tried everything. I felt like my world was caving in around me. That was, until I was reminded of something – I had forgotten about my powerful connection to my inner source of strength, peace, and wisdom.
Do you know what reminded me? I happened to watch the movie, “The Secret”. I recognized the principles taught in the movie, but had forgotten to apply them to my life to change my circumstances!
I realized that I had always possessed what I needed, but I was searching for a solution outside of myself. I forgot that every answer to every problem can be found from within. Once I remembered this and the incredible power we all possess, I made a choice to stand in my power and face this bully head on. My ability to once again garner my inner strength and face my bullies convinced me that I had to teach this to my son. I had to instill in him the same strength instilled in me that allowed me to feel “bully-proof”. I wanted to give him the ability to stand in the face of the “bullies” that life can throw at us.
Ian and I on his first
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Jeni Ihm
Mother of one
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“I had the privilege of being a part of the I Shine Child Self-Esteem Bully Proof program. My daughter, at the time, was only 14 months. I was not sure how helpful it would be at such a young age, but I discovered that I was able to start with a healthy foundation for her right from the start. Using Jill's suggestions to encourage my daughter with what she was doing well, with clear language, such as, "You followed directions", instead of my typical response, "Good girl", helps my daughter build her self-esteem with her own actions. I too was reminded that it is important for myself to stay positive with the outcome I want for my daughter. Being more aware that it takes both parent and child to help with this healthy outcome made me feel like I can do more that just trying to be a good example as my daughter continues to learn and grow.”
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But I couldn’t stop with my son. I felt a strong calling to take this lesson more broadly. Let me tell you why.
Whenever I hear an adult unknowingly say something to a child that I know can negatively affect her self-esteem, it breaks my heart! I know that adult could so easily tweak his words and have the opposite outcome!
Often when I work in the lunch room at my son’s school, I will see a child or two sitting all by themselves while other children are sitting in groups happily eating and talking and laughing. Every time I observe this, I literally have to push back the tears.
I know in my heart that it doesn’t have to be like this for them!
If only I could tell their parents what I know to be true about sparking that inner source of strength in children, that strength that gives them resilience in the face of “bullies”.
So, what are the “bullies” that your children face?
- Does your child continually seek approval and acceptance from others? Does he doubt his abilities when you know he offers so much potential?
- Does your child bend to peer pressure, rather than express her feelings and stand up for what she believes in?
- How do you feel when you see so much promise in your child, yet she lacks the inner motivation to succeed?
- Aren’t you tired of feeling that something that you’ve said or done, or not said or done has damaged the self-esteem of your child? Wouldn’t you like to know your role in the development of your child’s self image so that you could do something about it?
Parents, it doesn’t have to be like this! You can help your child overcome these issues, just like I overcame Joe, the neighborhood bully as a child and infertility as an adult. Together, we can make a difference for our children!
Because every child and parent should feel bully-proof!
Tsidi Bishop
Mother of two
South Africa
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“Since using Jill's Bully-Proof Self-Esteem system, all has been going so well. My daughter seems a lot more cheerful, lighter and less worried about making friends ever since we've started affirmations. She says hers with delight and confidence. In one of my visualization exercises I imagine my children being surrounded by other children who are very interested in them and what they have to say. I affirm this with words. Well, a week ago I went to my daughter's gymnastics school to pick her up, but I was earlier than usual. I found her in the middle of a crowd paging through a photo album which didn't belong to her. The crowd around her were listening very attentively. She had made friends...she was very happy. My child was never like that! She has always kept her distance from other kids, so self conscious. But what I saw brought a smile to my face; the picture was just so perfect. Not only do I believe my children are fine now, but I know they are going to be for the rest of their lives because we have the basic tools. The Bully Proof Self-Esteem program has indeed being very beneficial to me and my children. Thanks Jill.” |
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Would you like to learn a spiritual way to “bully-proof” your child by fostering a sense of inner strength and security that they could always rely on when things become challenging?
I’ve discovered an important key to unlocking your child’s potential and I want to teach you how to use it.
I’ve spent a lot of time and energy developing a simple and effortless strategy – the exact strategy that I’ve applied with my son, and that you too can easily implement with your children. I am finally ready to share this lesson with YOU so that you can teach YOUR children the powerful truth about their inner source of strength!
I’m excited to introduce this
strategy to you in my new
“Child Esteem-Building
‘Bully-Proof’ Audio Program”
The “Child Esteem-Building ‘Bully-Proof’ Audio Program” is a unique, one-of-a-kind, unprecedented 4-part audio program that will take you step-by-step through the strategy I utilize with my son and that you too can implement with your childre
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- Empower your child to deal with difficult situations and feel “bully-proof”, just like I did as a child (and again as an adult)
- Foster in your child a strong sense of self
- Enable your child to feel more comfortable expressing himself
- Increase your child’s confidence in school
- Bring out your child’s unique talents and abilities
- Instill in your child the knowing that he is special and valuable, no matter what happens on the outside that may suggest otherwise
- Provide you the satisfaction of knowing that you have taken action to improve your child’s life (and your own)
- Allow you to feel peace of mind knowing that your child will grow up with a strategy he can use to successfully deal with life’s difficulties
- Let you see the sparkle in your child’s eye because she feels “bully-proof” in the face of challenges
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A link to the mp3 file will allow you to download the recorded audio files and listen to them on your computer, or write them to a CD, whatever works best for you! And the accompanying pdf files will provide detailed session notes and practice guides to walk you through the material step-by-step, making it really easy to apply.
I’ve worked hard to make the lessons really easy to apply. This is the same strategy I have been using with my own son to effortlessly teach him how to increase his self-esteem and confidence. I can’t believe how simple it is and how well it works!
Please note that this course is NOT a “text book” self-esteem course, nor is it a course based around a particular religion. If that is what you are looking for, this course is NOT for you.
In this course I will teach you strategies based on the universal laws – laws that have been with us through the ages and that apply to everyone and everything.
Kirsten Carlo
Mother of two
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“This course is amazing! In just one evening I came away with a great technique to empower my son. And, the added benefit is I feel more empowered in my life. Jill is so easy to listen to as she gives me the information I need and ways to put it to use immediately. I can see a change already! Thanks Jill.” |
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You’ll probably be surprised to find out that a key part of this strategy is becoming aware of something that you’re doing all the time. Once you are aware, you can easily tweak what you’re doing to foster your child’s inner strength. I can’t wait to teach you how to do this!
By taking this course, you will specifically learn:
- How YOU are unknowingly impacting your child’s self-esteem
- The one question you must ask yourself if you really want to increase your child’s self-esteem (and what to do if you don’t like the answer)
- The exact words to say (and more importantly, what NOT to say) to enhance your child’s confidence
- A technique you and your children can use to calm stress and worries when they arise
- A strategy for replacing negative images in your child’s mind with positive images
- Fun activities and games you can do with your children that foster esteem-building (and that they will enjoy!)
If this sounds good, then the “Child Esteem-Building ‘Bully-Proof ’ Audio Program" is for you!
Are you ready to order now?
One payment of $297 $197
Two easy payments of $113 each!
Note, for the payment option, you will need a PayPal account
Click here to order now and gain instant download access.
Gina Ratliffe
Success Coach & Speaker
The Esther Experience
www.estherexperience.com
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“Jill is such a special woman and mother! I am so impressed by Jill's unique stand to not just WANT our children to feel great about themselves and make excellent decisions, but to be one of the RARE individuals who actually DOES something about it. Jill is making our world a better place by bringing spiritual lessons for kids into the mainstream. Under Jill's leading, parents will be offering their children the life skills we all desire.”
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Michel Rosenthal
Life Coach LCPC
www.rubyslipperscoaching.com
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“Jill was telling me about a situation her son had faced and how he handled it. A school mate of his got up and moved away from him in the lunch room when her son sat down. It hurt his feelings, and he was sad when he came home from school. When Jill asked him how he thought he should handle it, he said “I am going to tell him tomorrow that he hurt my feelings by moving away from me”.
“Jill is so good at teaching children. She asked him what to do and empowered him to make the good choice and to express himself. When she taught him that, I told her that she saved him years of future therapy! Her lessons and teachings are so powerful for children and for parents. Anyone would be lucky to have her as a guide."
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So many of you have said that you want to help your kids feel strong, have a sense of their inner resources, be resilient. It’s never too late to plant the seed in your child’s mind; a seed that will sprout into healthy self-confidence, inner motivation, and joy.
It’s just a matter of knowing what to do; knowing how to bring about this inner knowing in your children. In the “Child Esteem-Building ‘Bully-Proof’ Audio Program” I will teach you what I have learned and developed into a effortless strategy that I am using with son. I am just blown away by the results I am seeing and I want you to feel this way too!
So, here is what you get when you enroll in my “Child Esteem-Building ‘Bully-Proof’ Audio Program”:
- Instant access to the full 4-part audio program in downloadable mp3 format
- A success journal template for recording your progress
- Reference sheets from each session that will help to reinforce the key principles
- Handouts detailing the exercises to make the whole process really easy and straightforward
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Session One
In Session One, we’ll examine the mindset you need in order to bring about positive changes in your child’s self-esteem. You will learn:
- The connection between your thoughts and the self-esteem of your child
- Your role as parents in cultivating self-esteem in your kids
- The basics of some key universal principles and how we use them to bring about a healthy level of self-esteem in our children
- Why self-esteem is not tied to performance
- How our core beliefs can impact the circumstances of our lives and that of our children
- Whether your desires for your children are in alignment with your beliefs
- What specific core beliefs you hold that may be hindering your children
- A technique to eliminate any negative core beliefs you have
- How to create new beliefs that support the development of healthy self-esteem in your kids
...and more
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Session Two
In Session Two, we cover the power of language in the development of self-esteem and responsibility. You will learn:
- How language helps develop responsibility in our children
- How praise influences our children, and which type of praise can actually damage self-esteem
- The type of praise to use if you want to eliminate your child’s need to look for approval from external sources
- How to speak (and think) in a way that brings about the changes you wish to see
- Six language patterns that limit us and keep us from achieving our dreams, and how you can change these patterns
- How the words our kids choose to use can have a negative affect on their self-esteem.
- How to undo low self-esteem by making a simple shift in your everyday speech
- Three games you can play at home to encourage positive self-talk in your kids
- Why self-deprecating humor can be so damaging to self-esteem
...and more
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Session Three
In Session Three, you’ll figure out precisely what results you want for your kids, and then discover a number of tools you can use to bring these desired results into you and your child’s reality. You will learn:
- A powerful tool to help you determine precisely what it is you desire
- The critical role of goal-setting in helping you manifest real change, and a simple process to do this
- A simple process you can follow to help you effortlessly achieve your desired results
- How to write affirmations for yourself and your kids that bring about dramatic improvements in confidence and esteem
- A series of strategies that will empower your kids in a way that is really fun for them.
- How the power of your imagination can change your circumstances, almost like magic
- A straightforward daily routine that puts into practice all you have learned thus far
- A beautiful manifesting meditation that will enable your child to feel relaxed and truly powerful, even in the midst of the greatest of challenges
...and more
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Session Four
In Session Four, we’ll examine the power and role of gratitude in manifesting a healthy level of self-esteem. You will learn:
- The benefits of a gratitude mindset
- What gratitude has to do with self-esteem
- How to incorporate gratitude into your lives, and how use it as a tool when things get tough
- Five techniques you can implement immediately to cultivate an ‘attitude of gratitude’ in your home
- Why keeping a gratitude journal can actually improve your child’s sleep
- An easy way to stay focused on seeing the good in your child, even when they are at their worst
- A tool your child can use to increase her sense of well-being and satisfaction, almost immediately.
- A simple technique you child can use to enhance his sense of worthiness and self-confidence
...and more
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Sounds great, Jill! So, what’s my investment going to be to learn strategies that will foster my child’s sense of value, self-esteem, and confidence?
I’ve thought long and hard about what price I should offer for a system of strategies that will set up your child for life. I’ve spent countless hours and over $10,000 taking classes, purchasing and reading books, and going to seminars. All of the knowledge I have gained has enabled me to put together a system that can save you time and money and help you achieve one of your greatest hopes for your children – to help them tap into their inner source of strength and thereby build their confidence and esteem. When I thought about what this knowledge is worth, I realized that it is priceless. But I want to make this class accessible to as many people as possible.
That’s why I’ve set the price of my 4-part
“Child Esteem-Building
‘Bully-Proof’ Audio Program” at $297 $197
Don’t you think…
- The satisfaction of knowing that you are taking action to improve your child’s life (and your own)
- The peace of mind that your child will grow up with a strategy he can use to successfully deal with life’s difficulties
- Seeing the sparkle in your child’s eye because she feels “bully-proof” in the face of challenges
…is worth $297, $197 at the very least?
I’m sure you’ll agree this is a small price to pay to show your child how to access his inner strength and face life from a confident, secure place.
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- You’ll also receive a FREE copy of my “Moonlight Meditations” mp3 audio recording, valued at $19, yours FREE with your paid enrollment to my “Child Esteem-Building ‘Bully-Proof’ Audio Program”. This is a recording of two meditations I do with my son at bedtime that allow him to fall asleep peacefully, full of gratitude for his day and with joyful anticipation of the next day to come. He looks forward to these meditations every night!
Click here now to instantly download the program and receive your FREE copy of my “Moonlight Meditations” mp3 audio recording.”
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